My to do list:  Thanks to Alaskanalison for the list, otherwise I would have forgot half of these things!!

Things to Book:

Caterer  (check!)
Ceremony Site (check!) 
Wedding Coordinator  (check!) 
Reception Site (check!) 
Photographer (check!) 
Officiant (check!) 
Florist (check!) 
Hairstylist (check!) 
Make-Up Artist (check!)
Manicure & Pedicure Appointments
Rehearsal Dinner Venue (Check)
Facial & Waxing for the Week before the Wedding
Teeth Cleaning Week before Wedding
Hotel Room for Wedding Night (Check)
Honeymoon(check!)
Plane Tickets (Check!)
AHR venue
AHR caterer

 
Things to Order/Buy: 

Wedding Dress (check!) 
Bridesmaid Dress(Check!)
Flower Girl Dress (Check!)
Undies
Boustier
Shoes (Check)
My Jewelry (check!)
Garter Hair flower or hair pin(check!)
Cake topper (Check!)
Ring Bowl 
Bride’s Wedding Ring (Check!)
Groom's Wedding Ring (Check!)
Groom’s attire  (Check!)
Rehearsal Dinner Dress, shoes, jewelry (Check!)
Cake Serving Set
Postcards for Guestbook (Check!) 
Guestbook Pens
Gifts – parents, photographer, bridesmaids, groomesmen (Partial Check!)
Invitation supplies (Check!)
Wraparound Labels
Save the Date supplies (check!) 
Postage (check!) 
AHR invites
Labels for water bottles
Rose petals for aisle(check!)
Water bottles 
Personalized napkins
OOT Bags/supplies (partial check!)
Music for playlist(Check!)
Getting ready outfit (Check!)


Things to Make: 
Invites (Check!)
Save the Dates (Check!)  
AHR Invites
Wedding Day Time-lines(Check!)
Wedding Day Emergency Bag
Water bottles 
Postcard  instructions (Check)
Postcard packs
Personal Use Folder w/Vendor & Travel info, Contracts, Reservations
OOT bags (check!)
OOT tags (Check!)
OOT welcome letter (Check!)
OOT time line (Check!)
OOT photoshare cards (Check)

 

Things to Do:

Write ceremony(Check!)
Register (check!)
Decide on Reception menu (check!)
Decide on Rehearsal Dinner menu (Check)
Send Ring in to be Cleaned, Polished, Dipped
Pick a Hairstyle (check!) 
Schedule and Attend Dress Fittings(Check!)
Get Marriage License (Check!)
Write Thank-You Notes for Shower (Check!)
Make Music playlist (Check!)
Make List of Must-Take Pictures for Photographer
Confirm Hair & Make-up appointments (Check!)
Change of Name Paperwork 
Give Final Head-Count to Caterer and Rehearsal Dinner Venue(Check!)
Confirm Final Payment Amounts with Vendors
Pack Leave Honeymoon Itinerary with Parents
Put Hold on Mail (Check!)
Arrange for house-sitting
Put Final Payments/Cash Tips in Marked Envelopes and Give to Designated Family Member to  distribute on Wedding Day 
Rehearse Ceremony


Things to Send: 

Wedding STDs (check!) 
Wedding Invites
AHR Invites
Thank-You Notes for Shower(Check!)
Thank-You Notes for Wedding 
Thank-You Notes for AHR